Learn from My Lil' Sist
January 07, 2015
I was a
little surprised couple days ago, when my little sist said, “This is what you
looks like, mbak (old sist in Javanase)….” And she was acting in front of my
desk, wearing my earphone, singing something unclearly, while her fingers were
moving like someone did typing. Besides, he added some gesture when her hand
rose up my glass, pretend drinking what’s in that empty glass, in the mids of
her song. I laughed out loud immediately! Ouh, shit. That was exactly like me
when I was busy with my comp. She immitated it perfectly! And that was really
stabbed me down.
This girl, who’s in age that’s still 10 years, has been able to watch. Watching every phenomenas around her, interpreting it, and reflecting it again. She just didn’t know the essential of what she did. Looking me like that, through her best action of immitating, brought me into some realized minds. That people around you sometimes are watching your acts. They value you, from your attitude, your behaviour, or your habits. Even when it’s indirectly they don’t realize that they are. And through them, you know what you looks like from their side. Means, they are your true mirror, which is alive.
Actually I
just want to say that my little sist could get me into a term I nearly left;
instropection. When did the last time since I look into my own self, my bad, my
mistakes, my fools, my attitudes, my weakness, instead of look into someone
elses’? She opened my eyes that that my habit –wearing earphone ‘till not
realizing someone was watching that maybe he/she wanted to talk to me but I was
ignoring him/her— was so sucks to be done. That was one of the ‘indifference
irresponsive irritating selfish with 0% of the careness to the everything
around’.
It’ll be
very wise if you can control your attitude everywhere you are. And respecting
others, ‘cause I believe that you can’t aside the fact that someday there will
be a day when you need someone else’s respecting. Who the hell the one want to
respect you, if you don’t even recognise his/her existence?! Starting it from
not to look at your only self. There’s so many people around you, come on… get
socialized. Changing yourself will change someone’s treat towards you. Respect yourself
by respecting other selves. 
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